when you're dealing with problems...

One thing I for sure know about you is that you’ve got problems.

And you’ll never have a time in your life where you’ll be problem free. As a human, dissatisfaction is a part of you.

Wanting to improve things is our nature. That’s why we have so many innovations.
You inherently adapt to your lifestyle and look for faults. You then assume that happiness is somewhere in the future.

Nothing or no one will bring you eternal joy. You might love the idea of a lifetime fix and you might be driving yourself crazy to get to it. But guess what, you can be in a good relationship, living in a penthouse and eating steak every night. You’ll still be chasing solutions ???????

Problems can’t be erased from your life. They can only be exchanged or upgraded. Like, a rich guy and a homeless guy both can be having financial issues but one’s clearly more miserable.

Accept problems as part of the journey and know that life can still be enjoyed fully while having issues.

However, knowing what problems to ignore is part of the equation too.
Choose the problems you want to consciously give a fuck about.

Like having work problems to solve and finding new solutions makes me happy. No matter how frustrated I get, I use that to fuel my output. Or having relationship problems and solving them to build a deeper connection. Or facing uncomfortable actions to create a lifestyle I want. There are problems that are worth it. I’ll gladly work my ass off to solve these issues because the outcome brings me true happiness. My work and relationships are important to me.

Only take on problems that align with your values. And everything else choose to be indifferent. There are several things that can bother you from strangers on Instagram, minor everyday inconveniences, or not having the latest iPhone. What you focus on is what holds weight.
 
And when you set out to solve the problems that you deeply care about and not the ones that were created for you by others. The process of solving them will become truly satisfying.
 
There are two ways to view problems
one is to look at them as a challenge to create a stronger version of yourself. like if the problem is a level 4, think of yourself at level 10. You're stronger than that amateur problem. lol
Asking yourself “what’s the worst that could happen?” and mentally imagining the worst case scenario then finding an alternative route to cope with the worst case scenario will give you ease. Because there are way too many options and opportunities in the world to feel like one problem can make you lose your balance.
 
There are way too many options and opportunities in the world to feel like one problem can make you lose your balance. Nothing's really as life threatening as your mind makes it out to be. There is ALWAYS an alternative, you just have to actively do something about it.