42 to HEAR vs to LISTEN - my American friend

M – to HEAR vs to LISTEN. We’re dealing with PERCEPTION VS INTENTION. (sound of phone ringing)…. Uh… Have you heard that sound, Cindy? Is that your phone ringing? C – Yes, it is. Sorry, Marta, I need to take this call. M - No problem. C - Hello? Hello? Honey, can you hear me? Honey? I’m afraid it’s a very bad line, I can hardly hear your voice, can you repeat that? Wait a second… ok, now I can hear you very well. Uh uh… you took the car to the garage… is it ok now? Ok. Go ahead, I’m listening. I’m all ears. Oh, I see, you need my credit card for the bill… mmmm… how much is it? (gasping)… Honey? I’m afraid I can’t hear you anymore….hello? (hanging up). M – How come that you couldn’t hear the voice exactly when they told you the total amount you’re supposed to pay? C - Cell phones! ? Com’on, let’s move on with this episode. Here’s a good example to understand the difference between to hear and to listen: I was listening to my favorite song at full volume when I heard my neighbors knocking on the door. Marta, can you comment? M – well, you’d better use earphones. ? Your neighbors shouldn’t complain, though, you have good taste in music, I’m sure it was a great song. C – It was! Anyway, about to listen vs to hear? M - You were listening to your favorite song, intentionally, actively, when you heard your neighbors knocking, you heard a sound unintentionally, you just heard it, without wanting to. C – Exactly. Another example: imagine there’s a football game on TV, let’s say….Miami Dolphins VS San Francisco 49ers. M - Wow, my husband would be excited about that! C - Now try and tell him something important while he’s watching his favorite football team playing. M - Hey, darling, I have great news! (game commentary on the TV….) Babe… did you hear what I’ve just said? I have great news!! F - …what? Oh, sorry, Marta, I wasn’t listening. M - are you listening now? F – Sure, baby, I’m all ears. (TV : touch down Miami…) touch down!! Touch down Miami !! C - Yeah, that’s just the way it goes! “Did you hear what I said? I’m sorry, I wasn’t listening.” It’s not your fault, Marta, it’s the power of American football. M - It’s ok. Now how about using a few songs? C - Sure, let’s start with Adele “I heard that you settled down….” M - In this sentence “I heard” means: I got to know, I found out, I was told that… C - For example: “Have you heard that Jane got married last month?” Or “I heard that you got promoted, congratulations!” M - ok, here’s another song: “I heard it through the grapevine” C - “I heard it through the grapevine”, it means: I heard a rumor, people are talking about it, so that’s how I got to know about it. M - And now Beyoncé : “Listen!!” C – Beyoncé must be angry with someone there. If you say: Listen to me! you’re demanding attention. (phone ringing) hang on just a minute Marta, oh, it’s the mechanic calling, the car must be finished. Just a moment, I need to take this call. …Hello? Yes…how much? Are you f***ing kidding me? How much? That’s a $100 job and you want how much? No, you LISTEN to me! I’ll be there in one hour and we’ll talk about it when I get there. M - Cindy, you scare me ? C – Did you hear that? M - Yes, I was listening! C – Well, I’m gonna give the garage something to listen to when we’re done here. M – And actually, we’re done here. Ok, everybody, we hope we helped you understand the difference between to HEAR and to LISTEN, perception vs intention. C – Now LISTEN UP, I’m about to tell you our website address: www.myamericanfriendblog.com We’ve uploaded more than 40 episodes so far… M – And if you haven’t heard our previous episodes, HAVE A LISTEN! C - You can hear us on youtube, podomatic and iTunes. We’re also on Twitter and be sure to like us on Facebook. M- Bye bye!